telling someone "you dont have to be their best friend or invite them to your group chat, but you need to get along with people you dont like. your neighbors, your coworkers, people near you but who dont have a lot of shared interests with you - you need to get over your disdain for the ways they interact with the world and try to find common ground and community solidarity with them. that doesnt mean tolerating harm or hate; it just means forming communal bonds with people who fundamentally want the same things as you" and watching the leftism leave their body
Collective action does in fact require having an answer to "you and what army"
